{"id":1657,"date":"2022-04-04T12:47:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-04T10:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laurarabinad.com\/la-mala-fama-de-la-maternitat\/"},"modified":"2025-11-03T14:08:26","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T13:08:26","slug":"la-mala-fama-de-la-maternitat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laurarabinad.com\/ca\/la-mala-fama-de-la-maternitat\/","title":{"rendered":"La Mala Fama de la Maternitat"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Parlant a la consulta amb dones que busquen embar\u00e0s, m\u00e9s d&#8217;una vegada m&#8217;han explicat que elles volen ser mares, per\u00f2 no com aquesta amiga o aquesta altra. Quan me les descriuen em recorden les m\u00faltiples caricatures gravades a foc en l&#8217;imaginari on <strong>tenir un fill exigeix m\u00faltiples sacrificis i una abnegaci\u00f3 total.<\/strong> <br\/>Per posar un exemple&#8230; <\/p>\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\">\u00abQui afirmi que tenir un fill no arru\u00efnar\u00e0 per complet i de forma irrevocable la teva vida est\u00e0 mentint. Tot canvia. Destrueix la teva relaci\u00f3 de parella. Mata la teva imatge. Arrasa la teva productivitat. I et tornes est\u00fapida, amb la ment obtusa, entelada. L&#8217;embar\u00e0s i la lact\u00e0ncia atordeixen.\u00bb<\/p>\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\">A la novel\u00b7la d&#8217;Ayelet Walkman (2001) Nursery Crimes<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Amb aquests models tan comuns i <strong>poc satisfactoris<\/strong> de maternitat, propis del sistema patriarcal en el qual estem immerses, \u00e9s normal que algunes dones sentin que elles no volen ser mares, o b\u00e9 desitgen posposar la maternitat al m\u00e0xim. Altres que s\u00ed desitgen ser mares no volen transformar-se en una mare abnegada i sacrificada, per\u00f2 no coneixen cap altre model.  <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A m\u00e9s, en alguns casos, aquesta <strong>visi\u00f3 de la maternitat com a explotadora i opressiva<\/strong> tan comuna en generacions anteriors, haur\u00e0 pogut generar <strong>resist\u00e8ncies i pors inconscients<\/strong> que poden fer-se visibles durant la cerca gestacional. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Afortunadament, podem experimentar aquesta crisi de manera trencadora, transformant aquestes pors i <strong>redefinint la maternitat fora del marc patriarcal per col\u00b7locar-la en un espai de poder femen\u00ed,<\/strong> aprofitar-nos del creixement que ens brinden els <a href=\"https:\/\/laurarabinad.com\/blog\/identidad-maternal.html\">canvis neurol\u00f2gics<\/a> que tindran lloc durant la cerca gestacional, embar\u00e0s i crian\u00e7a i mirar a la cara alguns fantasmes amb els quals conviv\u00edem sense saber-ho. Podem sortir refor\u00e7ades d&#8217;aquesta experi\u00e8ncia i anar a la cerca d&#8217;altres models en els quals no calgui <strong>renunciar a l&#8217;equilibri saludable entre el produir i el reproduir-se.<\/strong>  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parlant a la consulta amb dones que busquen embar\u00e0s, m\u00e9s d&#8217;una vegada m&#8217;han explicat que elles volen ser mares, per\u00f2 no com aquesta amiga o aquesta altra. Quan me les descriuen em recorden les m\u00faltiples caricatures gravades a foc en l&#8217;imaginari on tenir un fill exigeix m\u00faltiples sacrificis i una abnegaci\u00f3 total. 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